In this world that celebrates perfection in every aspect, it is only human nature that chases perfection. In every direction that we turn, everywhere that we go, what greets us are polished images, edited moments, and standards that are constantly escalating on every single day that passes. Perfection is seen as this ultimate goal, this final point that lies beyond any errors and every single thing is finally in place. Behind this never-ending process of aiming for perfection, what is overlooked is this very important point that the truth about perfection is that it is a mirage. People spend years of their lives trying to live out impossible expectations, thinking that if only they push that little bit harder or just for a little bit longer or work on that one final flaw, then at last they will finally achieve perfection. And the closer they get to it, the further away perfection recedes. It is like the goalpost that keeps shifting.
Children are also teaching us that our acts in life can never be just right. Nowadays, teens and pre-teens no longer have joy in their hobbies, they are seeking the undeniable thirst of perfection. Children should not have to measure their creations in order to meet the standards of others just to feel good about themselves.
The attempt for perfection creates more problems than benefits. It leads to stress, doubts within ourselves and an overwhelming sensation of never being good enough despite what we do. Instead of enjoying the process of improving ourselves, what happens is that we become preoccupied with the flaws. The reality is that imperfection is something to be cherished and celebrated.
Growth and development are achieved in those areas of life in which people struggle and continue despite the challenge. When one allows and accepts imperfection that is when true growth occurs.
Perhaps it is time to stop clinging to the idea of a perfect life when life is about mistakes. Explore yourself as life is meant to be felt, studied and learned from; continue to grow and feel alive.
